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brownsugarbabyy asked: Hi, I've been natural for almost 5 months and I've been trying to get my curls more defined since I barely have any. My hair is 4b texture and a little bit of 3c in the back. How do I get the rest of my hair to curl up the way I want it to? Help Me Pleeeaaasseeee... :)


Answer:

Hey there! 

First, before I answer your question, I’m going to add a disclaimer by saying: take all of this advice with a grain of salt. Why? Because not everyone’s natural hair is the same; therefore, the techniques that work for some women may have to be adapted to better fit your hair (or in some cases they may not work at all). #TheStruggle (I know)

I’m on this new “less product” kick (mainly because products are expensive and my pockets are thin), but when I want to define my curls I use a simple solution: distilled water + EVOO. It nourishes my hair, adding moisture and shine, without causing my hair to flake or become hard. Sometimes, when I’m in a mood to use products, I add a little leave-in conditioner (my brand as of today: Cantu Leave-In Repairing Conditioner) after I apply the water & EVOO.

I typically part my hair into four large quadrants. Then, I work through one quadrant at a time, parting my hair into smaller sections, applying the water via spray bottle, rubbing some EVOO from roots to end, and sometimes finishing with a dab of leave-in. I work in small-medium size sections until I finish that quadrant, then I move on to the next. Simple, but it works for my hair (4a/4b) and my lifestyle. If your hair is very porous (dry, slightly brittle, lacks moisture) like mine, then I definitely suggest this method. If your hair isn’t, I think you should try it once (to see how it works) and adapt it or scrap it depending on your results. 

Some people I know mention using EcoStyler as a great product to help define their curls. However, some do mention having flakes afterwards. If you’re in a mood to splurge, I’ve heard good reviews on Miss Jessie’s Curling Pudding. 

Also, here are a few YouTube video references:

Defining 4a/4b hair: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iG0fzMUl4sw

Defining using EcoStyler: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2R-EX9qha70&feature=plcp

Defining using Miss Jessie’s:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vq1BKd48III

Experiment with the info above and let me know if it works for you! Send some pics & I’ll post them as well 

Good luck! I know you’ll find a method that works best for your hair, your style, and your life (:

— 3 hours ago
#natural hair  #texture  #4b  #3c  #defining curls  #tips  #resources 
CurlyNikki: Natural Hair, Growth & Retention →

Tips on protecting your hair to promote healthy hair growth and length retention

— 3 hours ago with 2 notes
#natural hair  #length  #protection  #tips  #growth 
lovekaylaxo asked: I love your blog! I was wondering do you know any styles I can wear with my wash and go. I've wore a mowhawk and some other things but I wanted something a little different. Any suggestions??


Answer:

Thank you so much! I really appreciate your support (:

Unfortunately, I can’t give you a style-by-style guide because I normally don’t style my wash-n-go’s (unless it’s the mohawk, which you mentioned already trying). However, I did attempt to do some research for you.

My friend, who has been natural for almost year, suggested adding a simple flat-twist across the front part of your hair to create a twisted natural hair-ban (if that makes sense). 

Another friend suggested pulling the sides back, as if to do a fro’hawk, but adding a pompadour in the front. 

My suggestion, which works for any length, is to accessorize! Adding hair bans, bows, decorative clips etc turns any plain wash-n-go into something new and hip (: 

Finally, I found these video on youtube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUuVHLf3-w4 // http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jATHCe42Cew // http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KBeULXzqkUY&feature=relmfu

I hope this helps love! In the end, it all really depends on your own creativity and style. Natural hair is a beautiful thing so any way you rock it, as long as it’s with confidence, I’m sure you’ll look AMAZING!

— 3 hours ago
#natural hair  #tips  #wash n go  #styling 
Congrats on your two year anniversary (:
Oh, the joys & wonders of having natural hair…no day is EVER the same!

Congrats on your two year anniversary (:

Oh, the joys & wonders of having natural hair…no day is EVER the same!

— 4 hours ago with 1 note
#natural hair  #journey  #BC  #growth  #anniversary  #submission 
destinybxdder asked: What are parabens and why are they harmful to natural hair ?


Answer:

Hi (:, 

To answer your question, parabens are a compound of chemicals typically used as preservatives in food and cosmetic products. You can find parabens in shampoos, moisturizers, make-up, and even toothpaste! While they are great to fight against bacteria and fungus, there have been recent studies that reveal a link between parabens and breast cancer, which is why many opt out of using products that contain parabens. It’s important to note that parabens are not only in hair products but in other cosmetic and food products today. To be safe, it is best to avoid products containing parabens. 

P.S) All women should be concerned about using parabens; whether you are natural, transitioning, or perming/weaving, this is an issue that crosses all hair and color barriers. 

— 2 weeks ago

A short film and poem I wrote to highlight the struggles that many black women face when it comes to embracing our natural hair texture and that despite living in a society that often places nappy and unattractive in the same category, we too are BEAUTIFUL!

I hope you like it!

- Kayla Enigma

— 2 weeks ago with 4 notes
#natural hair  #poetry  #film  #self-love  #beauty  #black women  #pride  #submission 
Simplistically Me: My Avocado Hair Treatment →

simplistically-me:

This is one of my favorite hair recipes to mix up for deep conditioning or to use as a hair mask. I like this mixture because it makes my hair soft and keeps it healthy.

Below are the items and steps you will need to follow.

What you will need to begin is:

A ripe quality Avocado (two if you…

(Source: youtube.com)

— 2 weeks ago with 16 notes
#natural hair  #homemade recipe  #deep conditioner  #avocado  #jojoba  #olive oil 
Tips on Maintaining Hairstyles while Working Out →

Tired of sweating your hair out? Want to work-out but don’t want to risk ruining your new ‘do? Please read these helpful tips and see if they work for you!

— 4 weeks ago
#black women  #fitness  #health  #beauty  #hair